The business of unraveling a marriage is fraught with issues that are ripe for mediation. In fact, in the State of Maryland parties with unresolved issues will be sent to mediation by the Circuit Court before having the opportunity to be heard by a judge.

I am a mediator, that is, a neutral third party who assists couples communicate and resolve disputes. Additionally, I help couples negotiate while dealing with the anger and sadness which often appear during separation and divorce.

Mediation is cost effective and timely. Couples usually split the cost of mediation and pay as they go. This differs significantly from litigation where each party often hires an attorney and pays a retainer of $2,500.00 - $7, 500.00, just to begin the process. Divorcing parties can mediate issues including, child and spousal support, visitation, property settlement, and child custody.

Mediation sessions usually last two to three hours. Couples who are able to sit in the same room and speak rationally with each other could resolve the issues mentioned above in just two sessions. I draft parenting plans and legally binding agreements when couples reach a resolution.

The mediation process provides a safe and respectful environment in which to work through issues. Mediation is confidential unlike court proceedings which are open to the public. Mediation allows parties in dispute to resolve their issues with less stress, anger, and anxiety which is especially beneficial where children are involved. Litigation, on the other hand, causes stress which affects children, friends and co-workers. Couples who wish to maintain a cordial and cooperative relationship are better able to do so with mediation than litigation.

Litigation is an adversarial process in which people surrender their dispute to a stranger in a black robe who will decide a winner and a loser. Mediation empowers divorcing couples to maintain control of and to resolve their issues. During mediation couples learn skills to effectively communicate with one another which may be used if future disagreements arise. Couples who mediate report more satisfaction with their agreement after the divorce is final than couples who litigate.

At any stage in the mediation process a party may consult an independent attorney for additional information or to review a proposed settlement.

If you are contemplating divorce and want to work out the issues before getting to court, contact Md Mediator (410) 433-4040. In many cases mediation may be scheduled the same week.